Friday, December 30, 2011

The REASON for the Season


Today we had some beautiful sunny weather in Texas and decided to take down all the Christmas decorations. It felt good to clean and organize, but I found myself feeling pretty sad. Even my daughter said "I wish Christmas never had to leave!" I started seeing all the things in my house that I want to change and organize. I saw project after project in front of me. And I saw limitations to my wanting to redo the whole house. Little by little as I took the decorations down and saw my bare house, I began to feel sorry for myself.
When everyone had fallen asleep, I took a moment to open the rest of my Christmas cards and read letters. I read about friends who had found hope again after divorce. I read about joy in a family despite losing a child. I read about travels and adventures. I am so grateful for every single person who has touched my life for good. My mood completely changed when I read a quote from one friend "I choose to focus on the abundance, not the absence." And another letter from a cousin who lost a baby and said "from Him who there was no room in the inn, his Christmas gifts are endless." Christmas in our hearts doesn't have to end.
I feel so much more hope and joy as I think of the many blessings I've experienced in 2011. Countless prayers have been answered. Holes in my life have been filled with love and joy. Hearts have been healed and paths have crossed just as Heavenly Father willed it. I do have so much abundance to focus on and hope to do more of that in this journal (my blog). With Christ, all things are fulfilled and nothing is left wanting. If we sincerely look to Him, we have all we ever want or need.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Ella's 7th Birthday Party


Ella wanted to have a Barbie and the Fairy Tale Princess party after her favorite movie. We had a lot of fun with this theme. We let the girls dress up in fairy wings, Barbie hair and take pictures.
They all got Barbie hanger buckets filled with their dress up goodies!The cake pops were a big hit!See the fairys jumping!Who doesn't love a pillow pet?
Each birthday, I try to write a letter to my kids. Here it goes! Dear Ella,
You truly sparkle from the inside out. Your 1st grade teacher says that kids are drawn to you. You are uniquely YOU. When I try to sign you up for things, you like to tell me "that's just not me!" You came with a strong sense of who you are and who you want to be. I love your big brown eyes and how they shine. I love that you want to snuggle with your mom. You are always begging me to come snuggle up to a movie or at bedtime. You must have every episode of Phineas and Ferb memorized, but I know why you like that show. You are inquisitive and curious like the characters on it. You asked for a microscope and science kits for your birthday. Barbies and science kits, that's quite a mix. You love a good story and especially love to act it out. You were born to shine, don't ever forget it. Ella, I love how you have such a good balance in your life. Once I've slowed down and truly appreciated YOU, I didn't need to run as fast. You are just content being YOU, not trying to race to be everybody else. Keep that quality! As a sister, you show compassion often to Dylan when he's upset or overreacting to a situation. I cry as I watch you hold his hand coming in our out of school, giving him a calm reassurance of your love. Heavenly Father blessed you with abilities to make others feel calm and happy. We are blessed by the sparkle you are to our lives. I love you snuggle bunny! Love, mom

Thanksgiving 2011

We were NOT in the Thanksgiving mood this year. Eric had it all planned out to get take-out and just have a relaxing day. But, then Dylan said a prayer of "We thank thee for Thanksgiving!" (Remember this is the boy who DOESN'T talk and who doesn't think of his own prayers hardly ever!) Next, Ella comes home with a writing assignment about her favorite Thanksgiving memories. Boy, there was some serious pressure in that story. It was all about her favorite foods, time with family and the perfect holiday. Needless to say, we tabled the idea of take-out pretty fast! It turned out to be one of our favorite Thanksgivings. We quickly divided up assignments with family and pulled off a yummy meal!

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Parades, Parades, Parades

In the past two weeks, the kids have been in three parades - Vocabulary Parade, Turkey Parade and Santa's Reindeer Parade. Lots of great photo ops for mom!

For vocabulary parade, they have to pick a word and dress up as that word. Ella picked "pillow fight" and so did her friend Katie who lives behind us. They got the idea of Katie's t-shirt.

Dylan picked the word "reptile" and wore his Halloween costume, the alligator. He WON best costume for his 4th grade class! He was so excited, he got to pick out a book as the prize!

Next, came the turkey parade. Ella and her first grade friends got to dress up as turkeys and go on strike. They made signs that said things like "eat more chicken" or in Ella's case "eat more cake!" The turkeys were so cute!

The next day, both kids got to dress up as Santa's reindeer and help pass out candy canes in a Christmas parade. Santa was at the end of the parade and both kids have been extra good since Santa is watching. Ella's friend has parents who own several shoe stores in the area. So, they asked our kids to march in the parade advertising their shoe store. The kids got to dress up as reindeer and wave to everyone along the parade route. It really got us in the festive holiday spirit. (In fact, tonight Ella asked if there really is a Santa naughty list. I told her, "I think so because one year Uncle Derek got a lump of coal!" Boy have they both been good today!

Sunday, November 6, 2011

18.1 Miles to the Temple

One of the spiritual highlights of the year was walking to the temple:


I walked with my Young Women 18.1 miles from our chapel to the Dallas temple Saturday morning, Nov. 5. It was an incredible experience, everything turned out way different than we planned, but way better too. The girls were so anxious to get to the temple that we were ahead of schedule all day.



The theme for the year was "In the strength of the Lord, I can do hard things" and we challenged the girls to do baptisms four times, memorize the Living Christ and walk to the temple.

The night before the temple walk, I was so anxious... it was like, can we really do this? Can we motivate 27 girls to walk 18.1 miles? We had done several practice walks with the girls, but the anticipation was high. We woke up at 4:30 a.m. and started our walk. The first seven miles flew by in the dark as we walked and talked. And the energy of the day never wore off. Their determination to get to the temple was so inspiring. I felt a strong feeling that all of our ancestors were cheering us on in our quest for the temple. Just as the parents and leaders were physically motivating us to the finish line, those on the other side want us to make it to the temple on earth.

Here's the full article I wrote about for The Church News:

As 27 young women set out at 4:30 a.m. to walk from their chapel to the Dallas Texas temple, leaders were sure the energy and enthusiasm of the goal would wear off.

Instead, the young women embarking on their 18.1-mile walk to get to the temple, “(practically) ran to the temple,” said Sis. Janice Aoyama, second counselor in the Frisco stake young women presidency (and mother of one of the girls on the walk) said. It was an “incredible sight.”

“The energy of the morning never ran out,” Sis Aoyama said. “The biggest challenge of the day for leaders was that we were always way ahead of schedule. We could not hold back the determination of these young women to get to the temple.”

The determination to get to the temple should burn within all of us this strongly as members of the Church.

“The girls were well prepared, they were well taught and they were ready to be at the temple,” Sis. Aoyama said. “These girls were reminded that the road to the temple is not easy, but it is possible in the Lord’s strength.”

A year ago, their ward YW president read an article in the Church News by Sis. Elaine Dalton, Young Women general president, about a group of young women who walked 22 miles from the Draper Utah Temple to the Salt Lake Temple.

“In the strength of the Lord, I can do hard things” was the theme of the temple walk. The article stated that often leaders want to protect youth from experiencing or doing hard things.

The idea of a temple walk challenge with this theme really spoke to Sis. Camden LeeMaster, YW president in the Frisco 1st ward, Frisco, Texas stake.

“It took me four or five weeks to have the nerve to bring this idea up to my counselors for our girls to do the same,” Sis. LeeMaster said. “I knew they would think I was crazy for wanting to follow the temple walk idea in our own ward.”

Sis. LeeMaster, a marathon runner, was worried that the young women and their parents would think she was just pushing a physical fitness program on them. After several promptings that her young women needed to do a temple walk too, Sis. LeeMaster could not ignore the feelings anymore.

As preparations began for the Frisco 1st young women to make the 18.1-mile walk from their chapel to the temple, several parents confessed to feeling that it was a crazy idea. There were complaints from young women and parents about the training, about having to wake up at 4:30 a.m. to begin the journey and questioning the purpose of such an activity.

Sis. LeeMaster felt strongly, however, that there are powerful lessons in doing something hard to get to the temple.

“When you are broken down physically, you have to rely on the Lord’s help,” Sis. LeeMaster said. “You can’t do it alone.”

There are hard sacrifices in life at any stage to arrive at the temple.
She compares the feeling of crossing a finish line after a hard race to the joy you feel when making righteous decisions and feeling the celebratory love of Heavenly Father around you.

There is only so far you can go in the gospel journey without needing the temple to go further. If you hit a spiritual wall or roadblock, the temple is often the answer.

“The temple is our crowning jewel of exaltation,” Sis. LeeMaster said.

The young women prepared both physically and spiritually for the walk. They trained on Saturday mornings by walking together and also attended the temple to do baptisms throughout the year.

The young men in the ward were at the finish line cheering on the young women in their quest to get to the temple. The young men even prepared lunch and served it to each girl as they arrived on the temple grounds.

“Often, it is the young women serving the young men as they end a difficult physical journey or experience, but today’s roles were reversed,” President Dotter, first counselor in the Frisco Stake presidency, said.

President Dotter praised the 27 sisters for uniting in their cause to get to the
temple. He said that as he Googled the path from the chapel to the temple, there were shorter routes. But, none of the routes were as safe as the one the leaders mapped out.

“There are no shortcuts” on your road to the temple, President Dotter said.
We all must obey the commandments, gain a testimony, keep the standards in The Strength of Youth and live worthily to enter the temple.

Ward parents and leaders had set up aide stations, water breaks and cheering places along the path. The girls hardly wanted to stop at any of these breaks, their eye solely on the goal to get to the end.

“As we walked, several of the girls said it was easier than they anticipated,” Sis. Lee Master said. “Getting off the trail or stopping only seemed to make it harder to get back on track.” While veering from the actual path is more difficult than staying on, repentance is always possible as you head to the temple, Sis. LeeMaster said.

While parents, leaders and young men all stood by these girls on their journey to the temple, there are also many on the other side of the veil cheering for each one of us in our quest for temple attendance.

Our ancestors are cheering us on to go to the temple, first for ourselves, and then to bless all who have gone before and all who will yet be born on this earth.

-by Sharisa M. Lewis
Photos by Megan Stilovich

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Halloween Alligator & Crayon!

Dylan INSISTED on being an alligator this year. So 45 minutes before his cub scout costume party, I pulled out a box that fit his head, cut out the teeth and let him go to town painting it green. Ella helped him paint white teeth and then we all glued on eyes. Voila! His costume was a big hit! Everyone said how much they loved it. Who needs the plastic store costumes?? The best part? How happy it made him! Ella was excited to wear this hot pink crayon costume my mom had made years ago.Ella got to wear her costume to several activities during the week. Here she is with her friends for gymnastics, Katie and Claire:Dylan got to go to a carnival for other kids with special needs. He went with his two autism buddies, Ryan and Christian. I'm so grateful these boys have each other.My mom, Ralph and Aunt Cari came over to have chili dinner and trick-or-treat. Always a treat to have family join us.Happy Halloween!

Field Trip Month


Both kids had field trips this month. I'm glad they still want mom along. Dylan went to a storytelling festival first and then to learn about bike safety. He liked the storytellers who made silly sounds and music. The other ones didn't hold his attention. I only have two pictures as it was dark inside. There was one storyteller that told some Indian stories. I told Dylan that maybe he was an Indian since he loves making all those sounds! Dylan's teacher, Mrs. McKee, is a big cheerleader for him. (Although his real crush is on Mrs. Benge, a 3rd grade teacher, who he tells me he wishes could be his mom!)Next field trip was to Safety Town where they got to practice bike safety. Dylan LOVED this one, more active than sitting at the storytelling festival!(I was nervous because Dylan can't yet ride a bike and yet there were lots of other fourth graders still on training wheels too!)
Ella's 1st grade field trip was to the park and then Safety Town. I love getting to know her friends and classmates better. Here's Ella practicing her driving skills: